This SMS conversation was with somebody that I've known since primary school. He's trying to get me to 'lepak' with his crowd, which he said is more productive coz they lepak and talk business.
R: Kitak polah apa hujung minggu tok? Jomla lepak dengan kamek orang. Ada barbecue, nangga wayang, main boling.
Me: Nangga la dolok mun sik ada apa-apa program.
R: Apa salahnya lepak dengan kamek orang....sikkanla asyik-asyik dengan geng-geng kitak jak...at least lepak ngan kamek orang ada faedahnya juak...
Me: Hmmm, sebenarnya kamek lebih suka melepak dengan kawan-kawan yang melepak dengan kamek because they genuinely enjoy my company and care about me.
R: Jadi, kamek sik termasuk dalam golongan ya lah?
Me: Kitak pikirla dirik pun.
This one pulak, via MSN, this guy works in the same company as me, but across the border. Aku pun tak tau kenapa dia berminat nak kenal ngan aku, tapi chatting jela kalau ada masa. Pagi tadi, dia MSN lagi..
O: Hujung minggu tok kamek maok pegi Miri? Kitak keja kah?
Me: Sik.
O: Apa polah biasanya? Sikkan duduk rumah jak?
corner punya corner punya corner....rupanya, mamat ni nak ajak aku keluar...ek eleh...
then dia tanya lagi...
O: boleh kamek nanyak berat dan tinggi kitak berapa?
Me: kamek berat dan sik berapa tinggi...why is that important?
O: sik da..kamek tanyak ajak
Me: owh, actually bagi kamek lelaki yang suka tanyak berat dan tinggi tok orang laki jenis shallow minded
O: kamek sik suka kitak cakap macam ya dan kamek sik suka kitak samakan kamek dengan lelaki² lain...
Me: sorry, I'll just say whatever crosses my mind
Apa yang saya nak cakap di sini adalah:
1. Know your self worth and please draw a line on how people should treat u.
2. Don't let anybody (even yourself) mess with your self-esteem....it took me years to get over my low self esteem (I couldn't look at myself in the mirror halfway thru high school because I think I have bad acne problem, I know how it feels)
3. It feels really great to zass people....especially this kind of people...nothing to lose what...they're not even my real friends
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